Services

Couples Counselling

I offer in-person counselling sessions in Amsterdam and provide online sessions for clients worldwide, accommodating different time zones.

English & Spanish

75 min
80€

  • From communication issues to being heard and understood

  • From feeling stuck in patterns to embracing positive change and growth

  • From same fights all the time to finding resolution and peace

  • From feeling lonely to rediscovering intimacy and closeness

Let’s stop chasing the fairytale.

As the demands of modern life escalate in our increasingly individualistic society, your relationship begins to feel like a pressure cooker, expected to fulfil roles once served by a whole tribe. 

Perhaps you’re feeling lost in alleviating this tension. Stuck in repetitive arguments with your partner, navigating power dynamics, closeness and trust. 

These are all common aspects of different stages of a relationship. What is less common is having the relational skills necessary to prevent cracks from forming in your relationship.

This is where I step in, equipped with Relational Life Therapy and Gottman Institute training to guide you and your partner through a transformative journey in three key stages:

Changing the Narrative. By using loving confrontation, I help awaken both you and your partner to the underlying patterns of your negative behaviour in a direct, yet compassionate manner.  

1

Healing and transformation. Through family of origin work and parts work, we delve into understanding which aspects of yourselves are fuelling the conflicts - whether it’s the wounded inner child or the grounded adult self.  

2

Coaching and direction. Equipping you and your partner with essential relational skills and tools, I empower you to show up in your relationship in a way that honours its worth.

3

Together, we'll embark on a journey to reconnect, heal, and strengthen your relationship, navigating the challenges of modern life with resilience and understanding.

What past clients say

  • The sessions with Davinia went better than either of us could have possibly imagined. She showed us how to make our conflicts manageable and communicable. (...) Thanks to Davinia our relationship is now on a path of growth and healing. It's really hard to put a price on that and we can't possibly recommend it enough.

    — Leslie K.
    Los Angeles, USA

  • Davinia's relationship coaching is a no-brainer! She tailored the program specifically to my partner and I's needs and we were able to get great results. Our communication has improved, and we have the tools we need to continue to better our relationship going forward. Very grateful for Davinia's help and highly recommend working with her!

    — Emily A.
    Sydney, Australia